Since beginning this new venture, I am saddened to say that I have come across a lot of prejudice. . . .
I am finding many people to believe that what I do is akin to sex work and that bellydance is for the sexual gratification of those watching it. I’ve also found, that for these reasons, people think that bellydance is not suitable for children because of it’s apparantly seedy nature.
This disappoints me greatly; bellydance is nothing of the sort. It is an ancient dance, rooted in birthing rituals and to me, is a celebration of the feminine. Bellydance can be learned at any age, some start as tots, some when they are middle aged!
I’m also coming across ignorance, complete lack of understanding and unwillingness to listen to reason! Understandably, I’m finding this and being viewed as some sort of harlot or prostitute quite difficult.
I suppose, there is not much I can do to change people’s minds, except explain what the dance really is and carry on shimmying regardless!
It would be interesting to hear other dancer’s experiences and people’s opinions!